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bracken hemming 🌓 ([personal profile] geminids) wrote in [community profile] adventureic2024-02-14 09:53 am

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if i had a nickel for every ex who hit me up today i'd be a nickel richer before i even got through my first coffee. gotta love a holiday that makes folks lonely n horny [...] well. y'know

who got the congrats to whoever got the whole florist btw.


[BRIAR]
d'yall do vday [...] or like any holidays, idk shit about fae.

[WOLVES]
moon next weekend. we camping or what
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I get it in some ways but [...] it's horrible and wrong. And it can't be making any of this easier for them.

I've been trying to figure out a way to handle it that isn't yelling at them.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
Very skeptical that that would inspire enough self-love to get over being a wolf.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
They do need to relax. You can definitely suggest it. [...] I know they'll feel better about it too once they get some control, but I hope it's not a chicken and egg thing.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
Some of it is definitely that. It's got to be hard knowing you could do that to someone else. And the shift is so painful for them. [...] They do. Doesn't do anyone good to think like that about themselves. You could learn to be a bit better to y

Fighting's out, yeah. Keda was not happy, and I think she'd kill me if we had them fight each other. [...] Maybe meditate? Fuck if I know. Record them as wolves being calm so they can see they're fine?
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
[...] Yeah, it's a big change all of a sudden. And not being able to remember makes it hard to really relate to it, or feel like it's a part of you and not just some monster that takes you over.

Yeah? That's good. [...] I just went home and got in an argument with Keda.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'll spare you from more introspection.

[...] I was in a mood so I wanted to pick a fight. It ended up fine, though, obviously.
Edited (he is slightly embarrassed to admit this but he's trying to be OPEN) 2024-02-15 04:46 (UTC)
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
[.....]

Fuck off. Like you've never done the same thing before.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 03:25 pm (UTC)(link)
First, I kicked your ass back. Second, it's different, it obviously wasn't physical. I felt guilty and So fuck off.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
No, she said I infuriate her.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 04:48 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not at all. It means I'm annoying Anyways, like I said, it was all fine.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-15 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Shut up. [...] Thanks. We've generally sorted out conflict resolution.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-16 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Definitely a bit of a learning curve. [...] It's We We still get in some big fights, but it doesn't feel like the end, ever.

Anyway, the point is you're a child too.
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[personal profile] arietids 2024-02-16 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
[...] I'm sorry Yeah, I'm lucky she's willing to put up with me.

Did

[...]

That friend with the kid - you seem close, right? I know it's not the same, but [...] was that some support, at least?

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